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REAL Publications are designed to help everyone learn to do what they have to do in a more exciting, vital, and meaningful way. Being a better parent is not just a concept--it's a way of Being, a skill set, a philosophy, an approach to life. Being a better Manager, Leader, Supervision is not just an idea--it's the opportunity to learn new skills and integrate those skills into your work life. REAL Publications helps you change yourself so that you can do personal things, professional things, and relationship things more effectively in real time in real ways.

If you are interested in being a better mental health professional, REAL Publications can help you to diagnose, to learn to do therapy over time, and to be more effective as a clinician with yourself and with your clients. If you want to be a better parent, REAL Publications can help you learn how to genuinely enhance the self-esteem of your child. If you want to be a great supervisor, REAL Publications can help you to learn the theory of supervision, the philosophy of supervision, and integrate and practice the skills that a great supervisor needs.

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This working paper takes the complex concept of awareness and helps individuals and professionals understand the role awareness plays in psychotherapy and focuses on how to develop awareness in the self. This paper also addresses specific strategies for awareness training and explores the notion of the awareness continuum. Awareness is a basic process underlying all psychotherapy.;   One of the most important things for psychotherapist to understand is how important basic groundwork is to the psychotherapy process. It is a crucial process in enabling the client the ability to work effectively in therapy over time. This Working Paper identifies the processes specific to groundwork and specifically emphasizes how groundwork creates a platform for later therapeutic success.   This Working Paper provides a wonderful opportunity for a therapist to experientially and didactically explore the processes of developing your own therapeutic style. When reading this Working Paper, there will be a variety of processes, intellectually and experientially, that help the individual define their particular style and understand where they can create opportunities to work on building and strengthening that unique style.   The notion of themes is a part of all therapeutic experience and this Working Paper helps to clarify, identify, and discuss how a theme is developed in therapy. It also helps the reader understand the qualities of the theme and what is required in theme development so the client will want to continue work on the identified theme over time. Theme development is the process that helps create motivation and self/responsibility in the client.
             
     
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This Working Paper begins to introduce the model of character treatment (personality disorders) developed over the last twenty years by Norman Shub at the Gestalt Institute of Central Ohio. This particular model of character is widely used by therapists today and identifies a specific approach and change process that has been proven clinically successful This Working Paper introduces the notion of present-centered diagnosis, which is a description of current functioning of the self in the present. This approach to diagnosis is a non-labeling, phenomenological understanding of how the self and the constituent parts of the self function together. The neurotic, borderline, characterological, fragmented, and psychotic self are each described in detail. Further, it explores where the blocks to connecting with the world can occur in each self. This Working Paper can be useful for practitioners of any theoretical background.   This Working Paper is for clients and therapists who want to understand the process of being in therapy. Originally written for clients and made available to them by their therapists, this Working Paper helps the client understand the therapeutic process, their responsibility, the therapists' responsibility, and many other issues relevant to participating in the therapeutic process. It has been proven to be a very useful tool for all types of clients considering or currently in psychotherapy.   This Working Paper presents a significant model for the development of high self-esteem that anyone-lay or professional-can use to identify and work on their self-esteem. It specifically and concretely defines self-esteem, which is in itself, an important consideration, breaks it into constituent parts, and provides cogent experiences and opportunities for the reader to work directly on their self-esteem. This particular Working Paper has been used by many therapists with their clients, as well as therapists who are interested in developing their own self-esteem. It has proven to be a very significant compliment to the therapeutic process.
             
     
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This comprehensive and very detailed Working Paper explores the complexity of the borderline treatment from a here and now psychotherapeutic approach. It presents the three phases of treatment, the specific goals of each phase, and includes a thorough discussion of the methodology and process of working successfully with the borderline client. The use of awareness, contact, introject work, and the goal of re-integration of the two warring introject systems is also discussed in great detail. The model presented here has been tested out by many practitioners and deemed to be successful with this very difficult to treat group of people.   This Working Paper helps teach anyone interested in working with couples more about how they can use their own creativity in helping couples bring about change in the couple’s relationship. Any individual who would like to be more creative in couples work of any type can benefit from this Working Paper. It outlines specific issues that need to be discussed, explored (in terms of creativity) and suggests ways that an individual can actually work on developing their creative process.   This Working Paper was written for any practitioner who would like to develop intellectual honesty, self-scrutiny, and self-monitoring in their psychotherapeutic practice. Written as a guide to practitioners interested in doing the highest level work, this Paper has proven to be very helpful in creating a self-supervision and an intellectual accountability process.   One of the main tasks of the psychotherapist is to deal with the negative beliefs of the client about self and the world. In addition, the therapist must be able to help the client, couple, family, or organization learn what is special about itself. This Working Paper explores the process of introject work, exploring how negative introjects are defused and how positive ones are developed. An important paper for all therapists and interested professionals.
             
     
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This Working Paper explores, from the inside out, the process of character change. This is an honest, open discussion of the internal struggle to deal with a personality disorder. The author talks about the benchmarks and difficulties of this process. If you are interested in understanding the character change process from the inside out, this working paper will have great benefit.   All mental health professionals have some notion of resistance. This Working Paper clearly and deeply defines resistance in psychotherapy and gives the professional clear, direct, and concrete examples of resistance, how resistance affects the therapy process, and models for working with them over time. Resistance is a part of all themes of psychotherapy   Are you interested in learning about how to raise a child's self-esteem? Then this workbook is for you. It is concrete, practical, specific, clear and valuable for professionals, clients, and all parents. This tried and true approach is a must for all parents!   Explore your ability to communicate, to share feelings, to support, to commit, to better manage conflict, to learn to explore opportunities in order to support your partner, to understand each other's differences, to discuss issues together-in the privacy of your own home. Issues you may have never considered but need to discuss. This workbook provides a foundation, an opportunity to explore, to apply Heart to Heart principles in a self-guided journey to deepen your relationship.
           
     
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This Working Paper is a very interesting and seminal one for all practicing psychotherapists. This paper redefines the concept of neurosis in actual phenomenological terms, helping the therapist understand, access, and conceptualize the neurotic condition and its components. It is a must for all therapists who are working with neurotic individuals and people who are suffering with the powerful distortions that are a part of neurosis.   Working at a boundary is the ability to see limits, being able to know when you are coming to the edge of a client’s individual growth process in marriages, in families, and in organizational life. So, being able to identify a boundary, understand how resistance emerges as you get to the boundary, and how boundaries work in the psychotherapeutic process is an essential concept, skill, and part of the therapeutic experience for all psychotherapists.   This publication presents a model of treating characterologic adolescents, which has proven to be very successful in helping the characterologic adolescent learn how to engage in a much more flexible, successful way in the world. The model looks at the therapy process over time as well as the differences in treating the defensive and the rigid characterologic adolescent - the two overarching main classifications of adolescent characterologic issues. By exploring this Working Paper, the reader will develop a much deeper understanding of the therapy processes and the stages of treatment as it unfolds, integrating the family work with the work with the individual adolescent. The Working Paper is a must for those individuals interested in treating or dealing with characterologic adolescents in their homes or any of the other environments that adolescents with character problems find themselves.   This Working Paper explores the nature, the process, the structure, and the use of the experiment in psychotherapy. The Working Paper is designed to help the practitioner understand how to create boundary-sensitive, specific opportunities for people to change. Entitled “Experiments,” the Working Paper looks at the experimentation process developed as part of the humanistic approach to psychotherapy, outlining the steps to developing an experiment, the need for buy-in, the role of the therapist/leader/facilitator, and a discussion of how to integrate the experiment into the changing self. If you are working in an area where supporting and facilitating the change in the human experience is part of your work, this paper will be extremely helpful.
             
     
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Using the developmental model of anxiety originated at the Gestalt Institute, this Working Paper revisits the treatment of anxiety disorders from a humanistic psychotherapeutic perspective. Postulating the importance of dealing with the negative beliefs about safety, the role of anxiety, the importance of diffusing those focal introjects, and the importance of a therapeutic healing relationship, this Working Paper presents the model over time for treating anxiety issues. Further, the Working Paper explores the role of the therapist, the subtleties that the negative introject manifests in creating the feeling of anxiety and the projections onto the internal world. This Working Paper helps the practitioner look at diffusing the introjects so that the anxious person makes a much more complete and fuller adjustment to day-to-day life.   This Working Paper is designed to help those dealing with the Narcissistic Personality Disorder understand what narcissism is, what a co-narcissist is, and how to deal with narcissism. If you are living with a narcissistic personality as a mate, a partner, a family member, a relative, or if you engaged in therapy with a narcissist, this Working Paper was written at the request of all those who are struggling both to deal with their narcissism and also to understand how people living with narcissistic personalities can survive and help support the change process.   This long-awaited Working Paper is a comprehensive and thorough treatment of the work with a fragmented self. The Working Paper begins by defining fragmentation process on a continuum severity and goes into depth about the stages of treatment of a fragmented self and the nuances of that process. The Working Paper explores the phases of treatment, the role of the therapist, the skills that are necessary to develop the connection, the importance of safety and the connected relationship and how integration is possible using this model. This Working Paper will be very helpful to the therapist who is working with Dissociative Disorder clients or people who are interested in this difficult population.   This Working Paper helps students of psychotherapy and organizational consulting better understand the models and the complex theoretical material involved in the study of depth psychotherapy. It addresses the process of change: that is, how change occurs in the human endeavor--individually and in couples, families, and organizations.
             
         
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This guide will focus on the Parenting from the Heart philosophy and the skills necessary to make it a reality. It will also encourage you to examine yourself and to make the changes that will create the opportunity for you and your children to enjoy the best life possible.   The model of Gestalt family therapy that presented in this Working Paper allows practitioners to build on their own personal style. As in all family therapy, personal style is important. In this model, however, it is particularly critical that you use yourself as the vehicle for the therapy. Unlike other models in which the methodology is more important, such as the strategic and structural approaches, Gestalt family therapy, because it is Gestalt based, relies on the practitioner's personality in the encounter with the family. This model allows therapists to use their strengths and their weaknesses to develop their own particular style of family therapy.        




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